Tag: Christian Prayer

  • Pray the Rosary to dearly see Jesus

    Pray the Rosary to dearly see Jesus

    October 7, 2022 – Memorial of Our Lady of the Holy Rosary

    Click here for the readings (https://bible.usccb.org/bible/readings/100722.cfm)

    Many have become accustomed in wearing or bringing rosary beads and keeping them in wallets, bags, pockets or cars. Some would consider it as a spiritual weapon. Others would even believe that it is an amulet or a lucky charm. In fact, the rosary is the most handy religious item we have as Catholics and one of the most common things that many of us bring.

    Today, the whole Church honors Mary, Our Lady of the Holy Rosary, a feast that reminds us of the importance of this popular and ancient devotion. Actually, using beads as a way of praying is not unique to us Christians. Even Islam, Buddhism, Hinduism, Shintoism, Sikhism and others use prayer beads as a form of devotion. Thus, this is something that we share with other religious traditions.

    But for us, what is the significance of the devotion in praying the rosary in our Christian faith? The rosary which comes from the word “rose,” is indeed, not just any amulet or a lucky charm that we could just bring around or wear to ward off some evil spirits. It is also not a way of bargaining with God that in praying the rosary, then, God will be obliged to grant our requests. This is also not a mere decoration of our identity but a tool for us to contemplate the life of our Lord Jesus and how he calls us today.

    The rosary has its own rich history and developed later on into a religious instrument for us to carry in order to pray easily the mysteries of our faith. Moreover, the rosary reminds us of the life of Jesus and the participation of his mother Mary whose life is so significant in the story of our salvation.

    This is how the mysteries assigned in each decade allow us to reflect on the actions of God within our story, within our human experiences. Just take for example the latest addition to the mysteries of the rosary, “The Mysteries of Light” which were added by St. John Paul II in October 2002.

    “The Baptism of Jesus in the River Jordan” tells us how the Spirit of God coming from heaven in a form of a dove confirms and affirms the identity of Jesus as the beloved Son of the Father to whom we are called to listen.

    “The Self-Revelation of Jesus at the marriage in Cana” where Mary his mother played an important role telling the servants to “listen to whatever he tells you.” It was through Mary’s intervention that Jesus revealed the glory in him for the couple in Cana. That self-revelation of Jesus tells us of the abundance of grace that Jesus brings to us and of Mary’s role in the story of our redemption.

    “The Announcement of the Kingdom of God with the Call to Conversion” is a time of grace in which we are all invited to be in the presence of God. This implies that we too are called to embrace God’s mercy and forgiveness by humbly recognizing our sins and failures.

    “The Transfiguration of Jesus” calls us to be also transfigured into the image of Christ whose glory has touched us. Again, it was in this event in the life of Jesus that we are once again called by the Father “to listen to him.” Indeed, in listening to Jesus that we are empowered to be transformed into his likeness since we too are all God’s beloved.

    “The Institution of the Holy Eucharist at the Last Supper as the Sacramental expression of the Paschal Mystery” calls us to make the memory of Jesus ever alive in our life and in the life of the Church. Thus, every time we celebrate the Holy Eucharist, Jesus’ life is not just remembered as something from the distant past, but allowing the Lord to be intimately with us, among us and in us in the here and now.

    Indeed, these mysteries of light allow us to discover and contemplate how God brings light into our lives, to break the darkness of sin and to embrace us with the joy that his presence brings today.

    Thus, pray the rosary that our heart and mind may change according to God’s desire for us and not the other way around. Pray the rosary and develop it into a habit but not merely to just murmur prayers, but as our way to realize God’s divine revelation in our life. Pray the rosary with our Mother Mary who is our powerful companion that we may dearly see Jesus and discern clearly His desire for us. Kabay pa.

  • Are you so stupid? 

    Are you so stupid? 

    October 6, 2022 – Thursday of the 27th Week in Ordinary Time

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    Many must have felt that prayer is an obligation, that it is some kind of a to-do list item or a strict law that one must observe and follow. When I was young, I was taught that I “must and should” pray so that I become a good boy and avoid God getting angry. Many of us have developed ways of praying and different devotional practices like praying the rosary and the various novenas to the saints. Yet, many seemed to believe that prayer is indeed a legalistic duty.

    This must be the reason why many would feel guilty for not doing their prayers or the devotional prayers people think should be observed. With this, a strong desire can develop to “observe such obligation” to the point it can become an obsession. Indeed, we could be caught up by the externals that we would tend to forget what is in the heart. Our motivation then could be only grounded on pleasing others and pleasing God to look more righteous on the outside.

    This was something Paul warned to the Christians in Galatia. The Galatians seemed to be influenced by the false teachings of the Judaizers (Christian Jews) that in order for them to be righteous and become true followers of Christ, then, they must strictly observe as well the “works of the law.” This means that the Galatians must also observe the Jewish practices of circumcision, dietary restrictions and keeping of feasts and holy days. Galatians seemed believed in this that they too must observe such externals so that they will be accepted and justified as righteous followers.

    Paul did not agree with this. This was the reason Paul strongly told them, “Are you so stupid?” It is through faith and the gift of the Spirit that one is graced and not with the “works of the law.”

    In the same way, Jesus invites his disciples to be persistent in prayer. Yet, this does not mean that one is merely obliged to pray as if this is some work to be faithfully done only. Indeed, never did Jesus impose this to the disciples. This allowed the disciples to realize the importance of prayer, not as a mere obligation to observe but as a way of life in developing a closer relationship with God, to an intimate friendship with the Lord. This was something they have witnessed in the life of Jesus who is intimately close with his Father in Heaven.

    Truly, Jesus teaches us to be persistent in prayer and to continuously develop our closeness with the Lord. Jesus gives us these three attitudes of the heart as we pray.

    First, Ask. This brings us into a deeper awareness of ourselves which includes recognizing our sins and failures, our needs and deepest hunger, our deprivations and real intentions. This calls us to become more accepting of ourselves. Only then, that we can truly ask the Lord to satisfy the deepest desire of our hearts, and we shall surely receive the grace.

    Second, Seek. We seek for wisdom and understanding because in the process of asking the Lord, we might become weary and anxious from waiting. Thus, we pray to seek what remains hidden and undiscovered within our hearts so that we will be able to find and recognize the Lord working in our human experiences.

    Third, Knock. When demands from work, from home and from our relationships, and expectations from others begin to suffocate us, we long for a break. When failures, pains and guilt begin to take hold of us, we long for an embrace that will give us assurance of love and mercy. Thus, we pray to knock at the heart of God, most willing to embrace and accept us as we are. Do not be afraid then, to pray in order to knock at His heart. The Lord will certainly open His arms for us for He longs to embrace us. Kabay pa.

  • Praying as Jesus Prays

    Praying as Jesus Prays

    October 5, 2022 – Wednesday of the 27th Week in Ordinary Time

    Click here for the readings (https://bible.usccb.org/bible/readings/100522.cfm)

    We cannot help that sometimes our way of praying sounds like a demand to God. This could happen especially when we feel desperate. Though we believe that asking or begging God’s grace is certainly a way of praying, yet, this is not everything. When our prayers will only be filled with demands and requests for our own needs or wants, then, we might tend to believe that God is like a vending machine who is 24/7 available to grant our whims.

    Prayer is ought to be our way of life as Christians and not just a mere religious practice to observe from time to time or when we only want it. Prayer as our way of life is a constant discernment of the will of God, of getting closer to the very heart of the Lord. This is what a disciple asked of Jesus in today’s Gospel. The disciple witnessed how Jesus lives a way of life in prayer. The disciple must have seen how prayer empowers Jesus and his ministry by being one with the Father in Heaven through prayer.

    Indeed, Jesus taught his disciples how to pray which we know by heart as well. The Lord’s prayer allows us to put our complete and childlike trust to the Father. Such prayer brings us into a greater awareness of God’s presence working every day in our life and a greater awareness of our true needs, particularly of being at peace and reconciled.

    The prayer Jesus taught and his way of life in prayer have a common thing to reveal to us and that is, to be “in the heart of God.” Others may all this as being “in communion with God or to be one with God.”  Being in the heart of God is to be in a state of allowing the Lord to change us, to transform us that includes our thoughts, our desires, our plans and our very way of life.

    Certainly, what Jesus desires for his disciples and for us is to pray as Jesus prays. The very life of Jesus is founded in being in the heart of his Father in Heaven. With this, Jesus constantly seek his Father’s will and desire for him and for the world. This is what Jesus also wants us to learn, that in our prayer, we may also be in the heart of God so that we may be able to discern and identify God’s desire over our impulses, to know and embrace God’s will over our demands and personal wants.

    This is something that Paul wanted Peter to recognize and embrace as well. Paul, in his letter to the Galatians, reminded Peter of his hypocrisy, biases and wrong belief about God’s desire. Peter refused to eat at the table with Christians who were non-Jews. Peter must have believed at the thought that in order to be a disciple of Jesus one must be first a Jew. Paul confronted him about this and called Peter that God is not like that. God is not limited with Jewish practices. God is not even limited among them and not limited on our personal prejudices. Definitely, Peter was challenged by Paul to rather seek the desire of Jesus and not his or a group’s desire. Such way of knowing Jesus’ desire is to be in the heart of God through prayer.

    Thus, this calls us also today to make our prayer as our way of life so that we may come into the heart of God and know better God’s desire over our personal wants and whims. Kabay pa.