October 19, 2025 – 29th Sunday in Ordinary Time
(Click here for the readings (https://bible.usccb.org/bible/readings/101925.cfm)
There was once a funny story about a bully who was so envious about his poor neighbor’s faith and prayer life. Every time he met his elderly devoted neighbor, he would always test and insult her faith. Sometimes, he would discourage her, saying: “your prayers and devotion do not lead you anywhere but more frustrations”. The old neighbor would just smile and kept silent.
One day, the bully overheard his neighbor while praying this way, “Lord Jesus, you taught us to ask for our daily bread. You know my food supply is just enough for this day. My hard-up son has not yet sent me something for tomorrow. I do believe you know what is best for me. If it is your will, Lord, grant me what I need as you have always provided for me. May your will be done. Amen.”
After hearing this, the bully went to the grocery and bought some food supply. Then, next day, he went to his neighbor’s house, drop a bagful of grocery outside the door, hides somewhere near and waited for his neighbor’s reaction. When the neighbor found the bag outside, she was happy and all praise to God for the graces right before her.
Suddenly, the man interfered and said, “Aha, got you. That bag of food is not from your God but from Me. See, your God doesn’t care for you”. The old lady neighbor just loudly prayed, “Lord, many thanks for these food You have given me today and….. for letting my good neighbor pay for it”.😁
Praying to God has always been part of our life. And in our efforts to pray, there will always a discontent within us with the way we pray – that somehow there is something kulang, inadequate or missing in the way we pray, and we don’t know what and how. Yes, there is always a desire and longing for the best way of praying. Like His disciples, deep inside, we cry: “Lord, teach us how to pray”.
Our readings today are all about prayer, and teaching us how to pray. In our first reading, we hear that Israel won the war against Amalekite as long as and because of Moses persistently raising up his hands to heaven to pray, with other’s help. St. Paul in the second reading appeals for constancy and never losing patience in proclaiming and sharing our faith to others.
Jesus in our gospel today points out that the same kind of persistence of the widow to the judge moves God to respond to our pressing needs and concerns. Meaning, prayer is our humble and trusting but persistent & constant expressions of our appeals, requests – of our heart’s desire to God before His presence. In other words, our readings today are teaching us that prayer is basically our loving requests to God, our Father – LAMBING or “Pamaraig” to our Tatay.
Here, we are also reminded that God always listens to our prayers. God as our parent chooses & wants to listen to our heart’s desire. He knows and understands our needs and concerns while he also wants us to come near Him and express our loving persistent requests (our lambing – “pamaraig) to Him.
Also, God always answers our prayers in His own time and ways. Yes, sometimes we feel frustrated with God for not answering our prayers. But the same way we experience our own loving parents, God seems silent or passive with our prayers but actually He is discerning and planning what is best for us, better than what we expected & prayed for. We are only to express our prayers – our loving requests persistently, with patient waiting and trusting that not long for now we receive more and better than what we expected.
Like what happened with our story above, God has His own ways and time to grant our prayers. God always listens and answers our prayer in His own time and ways. Consider then that for Jesus, what matters is not our desires, longings, needs, hungers and cravings but it is our persistency, patient waiting and trust and confidence in God, our Father. Remember in praying to God, it is not what we pray but how we pray it, not what we ask for but how we ask it from Him that matters. It is the manner of prayer, the pamaraig: the asking, seeking and knocking that is significant, and not the content or outcome what you ask and seek… it is said, “For everyone who asks, receives; and the one who seeks, finds, and to the one who knocks, the door will be opened.”
Be reminded Jesus told us today’s parable to teach us the need “to pray always without becoming weary”. Simply put – in praying, never give up & just trust God’s ways & will to do the best & the rest for us; for whatever God-given gift we received, some good or bad person might be paying for it.
We pray then that may our usual prayer be from our persistent – “ never give up”, “without weary” expressions of our lambing, heart-desire, not for our desire of our wants and needs of the gifts but rather out of our love for God, the Giver of the gifts now & always.
Amen. So be it. Siya Nawa.






