Category: Liturgical Year A

  • Invited Guests

    Invited Guests

    October 15, 2023 – 28th Sunday in Ordinary Time

    Click here for the readings (https://bible.usccb.org/bible/readings/101523.cfm)

    Imagine that a big event is about to happen within your company of work. And many are especially invited & one of them is you. How would you respond to this special occasion in your company? Are you going to attend or not? If not, what are your reasons & excuses for not going? Perhaps conflict of schedule, you don’t like the host & other invited guests, other so-called important commitments than the event itself, simply distaste of the company & crowd, among others. And if you are going, how would you attend? Are you going to dress up for the occasion, enjoy the program & party, meet old & new friends, stay-on until it ends, honor the host & honorees, and others? Or are you just going to show up on jeans, shirt or shorts, eat-drink & mingle a little, sit at the back, perhaps do some sideline business, meet possible contacts & clients, try to leave early as possible (BH) bringing along some food & drinks from the event for the after-party with friends? 😉

    Guilty or not guilty?, but Sounds familiar. We do have seen, heard & even experienced for ourselves the same situation. This is the very experience that Jesus is telling us in the parable of wedding guests in our gospel today. It plainly begs the question: “What kind of invited guests am I, are you, are we?”

    Are we the “excusing” (balidad) guests who find a lot of alibis & reasons not to attend? Or are we the “worthy” (angayan) guests who willingly choose to attend & enjoy the occasion? Or are we the “unworthy” (bastos) guests who unwillingly attend for the sake of obligation & personal interests?

    In our gospel today, we hear Jesus ends the parable with the words; “Many are invited, but few are chosen.” It feels great to know that “many are invited” for it assures us that all those who believe in Jesus are invited to be part of God’s salvation in life – that into Christ, we are God’s invited guests. However, “few are chosen” not because only few are worthy to be invited, but moreso, few have chosen to be a worthy guests (naging karapatdapat/nipiling angayan) of the invitation & the occasion.

    Remember the lesson about invitation & choice is not about discrimination & exclusivity (who is invited & chosen or not to attend), but all about our choice-response to God’s invitation for all. Yes, we are all invited to attend, but how we respond to the invitation greatly matters. In other words, “Many are called but few are chosen” because few have chosen to respond worthily – few have chosen to be worthy of the invitation & occasion. We also note here that the invitation is not only a Gift from God, but also our choice to respond to his invitation. Righteousness (having right relationship with God) & worthiness of God’s blessings then are both God’s gift and our willing response to it.

    Perhaps we beg the question now to ourselves, after pandemic times where & when we experienced how it is to be distant & restricted to attend Sunday Eucharist for quite some times: “What kind of Sunday Eucharist invited guest I have been lately? What kind of Sunday Eucharist invited guest I choose to be from now on? Will I remain be the “excusing” (balidad) guests who find a lot of alibis & reasons not to attend? Or will I remain to be the “worthy” (angayan) guests who willingly choose to attend & enjoy the Eucharist? Or Will I remain be the “unworthy” (bastos) guests who unwillingly attend for the sake of obligation & personal interests?

    As per experience, one of the topmost sins confessed during confessions is for failing & missing to attend Sunday Eucharist with corresponding alibis & excuses. As per advice, I usually suggest to the penitent that before coming to attend Mass for the next time, recognize & count first the special & ordinary blessings (all God has done to you & through you), that you have received from God during the week, and bring all these to the Eucharist in praise & thanksgiving for His love & goodness; rather than going to mass only with your wants & needs, merely asking for all that you want/need Him to do for you. Simply put, Come & attend in thanksgiving for what you already received than just begging for what you want & need. Kay Ang Misa Bangkete/Punsyon, ug dili feeding program o paghatag og hinabang. 😉

    Worthy or unworthy we may be, thank you, Lord for inviting us always to be part of your blessings & life-celebration. May we willingly choose to attend & be present to be With you always for we know that apart from you we can do nothing, & we believe that away from you are nothing.

    So May It Be. Amen.

  • Karen & Ken-Moments

    Karen & Ken-Moments

    October 8, 2023 – 27th Sunday in Ordinary Time

    Click here for the readings (https://bible.usccb.org/bible/readings/100823.cfm)

    For pasalubong, a monsignor once bought a box of munchkins from Dunkin Doughnut. While waiting for their flight, a family sat beside him at the pre-departure area. Giving in to his cravings for sweets, the monsignor took a munchkin from the box, and enjoyed eating it. Suddenly, from the same box a little boy also took and ate one. He did not mine at first, thinking the boy must be hungry. But then, the elder sister of the boy also took and ate one. This has upset the monsignor but he just ignored it and took one for himself. But then so did the parent of the children. This really irritated the monsignor that he glared at the family who was consuming the rest of the munchkins. But what really made him angry was when the mother took the last munchkin and offered it to him. Now indignant and so enraged, the monsignor stood up and changed his seat. But later on, when his opened his tote bag to get his ticket, he saw, much to his embarrassment and shame that inside his bag was his own box of munchkins unopened. “Opps, hindi pala kanya yon.”

    Surely we are familiar with these experiences. We do hear, seen & have even experienced moments like these ourselves. Young people nowadays would call these moments slangly & pejoratively as “Karen or Ken Moments” where & when we experience people who asserting  their entitlements & demanding their privileges that they are not rightly to claim.

    Perhaps sometimes it is good to examine and ask ourselves: “What are the things that we claim as being rightly ours and yet are not truly ours?” This may not only be material possessions but could also be our status in society used to lord over others… titles used for personal advantages, prejudices and biases harbored towards others… or self-righteous behaviors that makes us feel morally better or more privilege or important than others. Sometimes, we admit that we are not different from that monsignor. We sometimes claim these privileges, that do not really belong to us, but we come to think and believe that they are only ours to own. Worse, we are sometimes greedy enough to claim that we are the rightful owners of the munchkins and it is only us to have and enjoy. Yes, at times we become Karen & Ken. We do have our Karen & Ken moments.

    Certainly Jesus would not tolerate our being Karen or Ken and justify such behavior of distinctiveness, self-righteousness, greed and conceit. This is what Jesus criticizes here in our gospel today. 

    By telling us the parable of Ungrateful Tenants, he reminds us that God has already done His part for our salvation, and that we should also do our part. And our part is not to hoard, accumulate and own all the blessings He has given us but to produce its fruits and share it to others. Here, Jesus strongly condemned the Pharisees and scribes of his time and warns us of our tendency to be so preoccupied & obsessed with honor, recognition, privileges, titles, and social status – thinking and claiming that we are greater compared to others, and much worse, even resorting to greed, fraud, and murder, in order to protect and maintain such claim.

    For Jesus, the Kingdom of God is wider than our human standards of social status and privileges. He reminds us today that we are not the rightful owners but mere tenants, sharers, benefactors or stewards of God’s graces. We cannot exclusively claim ownership and privilege for what we have, because everything we have is a gift from God.  For Him, God’s Kingdom is more like a big farm where all of us participates and shares in the production and fruits of the bounty, where each of us has something to contribute and benefit from, since no one is too poor who cannot share with others and no one is too rich who does not need others. (Sa Hiligaynon pa, walay kubos nga indi makahatag, walay adunuhan nga wala nagkinahanglan.)

    Our Eucharist today has a simple message: What you enjoy now are not only fruits of your labor but most of all, God’s gifts.  All of these are God’s blessings to you and for all of us to enjoy. Accept the Gift, but don’t forget to acknowledge and thank the Giver. Be fruitful and share the fruits of God’s kingdom to others, for all these are not ours, but His.

    Be reminded that our recent experience of Pandemic times do make us reflect and realize that our life is essentially on-loan, a God-given chance by God to live and create this life anew & better. What we have now are just but borrowed time, talents and talents to make life fruitful and bountiful for all. Somehow pandemic times is God’s way of pruning and forming us to be who we are and we should be – His stewards, mere tenants, and not the so-called “Karen & Ken” of His creation & redemption. 

    Grant us, O Lord the humility to trust your Ways of creating anew our lives according to your Will. Amen.

  • BEING SORRY

    BEING SORRY

    October 1, 2023 – 26th Sunday in Ordinary Time

    Click here for the readings (https://bible.usccb.org/bible/readings/100123.cfm)

    In a recent Facebook post, a Q&A was logged:  “Is mortal sin forgiven only through sacramental confession?” In other words, “Is it enough to confess your sin to be forgiven of your mortal sin?” The answer was… sacramental confession is normatively but not absolutely required of mortal sin. Meaning, confession can forgive mortal sin but it is not the only one way and means of forgiving and being forgiven of mortal sins.

    Yes, sacramental confession and forgiving mortal sin are all about reconciliation with God and others, but it is also (and moreso), about REPENTANCE – the whole process of turning from sin and dedicating oneself to amend one’s life.

    Our readings today have a lot to teach us about repentance. First of all, repentance is more than just changing one’s mind, but it is about making a choice – a stand for ones life. In our gospel, both sons changed their minds: the second did not fulfill what he promised while the first did what was requested which he had initially refused. The virtuous as well as the wicked may also change their mind as our first reading suggests. Although it involves much changing one’s mind, repentance thus requires our choice – to turn away from virtuous or wicked life, as well as to fulfill or neglect our promise.

    Second, repentance is giving oneself and the others another chance. In our gospel today, because he choose to neglect his promise, the second son did not give himself and his father a chance to make things right. The first son however gives himself another chance and his father to make things right again by doing what was requested, even though he did not initially commit. In the same way, for the wicked to change his mind and turn away from his wickedness, he gives himself another chance for God to forgive and be merciful to him, and for himself to lead a virtuous life.

    Third, repentance is about saying what you mean and meaning what you say. It is not only about confessing you sin, just saying you’re sorry, but it is all about BEING sorry. Confessing ones sin is also not only about resolving to change your ways but it is all committing/ dedicating oneself in changing one’s life. Jesus asks about whom among the sons who Did the will of Father. He is not concern with who says Yes or No, but who does the Father’s will. Meaning, God needs DOERS who mean what they say, live and witness what they preach and believe, rather than preachers who do not do, live, witness what they say and preach.

    Although less appreciated compared to other sacraments, repentance of sin through the sacrament of reconciliation or confession is actually a Gospel – a good news of God’s salvation because it involves the resolve and commitment of the sinner to change one’s life, to give oneself and God another chance, as well as to live his life and dedicate his faith as witness to Christ’s good news to all.    

    St. Francis of Assisi who once said: Preach the Good news at all times, and use words when necessary. This reminds us that everything in our life as Christian – our struggles, hopes, dreams, aspirations, commitments, as well as our repentance of sin are a Life of Witness to the Good News of Christ. Whatever we do and however we live our Christian lives is a testimony to God’s work of salvation. It is ours now to share and preach such gospel to all at all times, not only by our words but also by our actions.

    In other words, it is never too late for us to change our minds, our ways and life. Just believe in Him – this would be the Lord’s  challenge for us now.

  • Work FOR What?

    Work FOR What?

    September 24, 2023 – 25th Sunday in Ordinary Time

    Click here for the readings (https://bible.usccb.org/bible/readings/092423.cfm)

    Don’t know if we hear it right. Jesus’ parable today tells us of an owner who paid the same amount of wages to laborers who came first and last. Do you think the owner has been just and fair? Has he paid for what we call today just-wage for an honest day’s work? And Jesus even ends the gospel with a completely non-sense statement: “the last will be first, and the first will be last” simply because for us the first is first, and the last should be last?

    For us today, paying same amount of salary to first and last, simply doesn’t seem to be just and fair. Maybe our gospel today is one of those written in the Scripture which is good to hear, but doesn’t make sense, so we don’t bother to follow. This is because we nowadays follow a very different work ethics. First, we always think that there should be seniority in workplace – those who are more senior, experienced, talented should deserve and enjoy more privilege than those who are young, inexperienced and still learning laborers. And, we recon that the more you work the more salary or wage you deserve than those who have less work. That is why we think that our parable today is not fair because we usually connect wage, salary, reward and payment with work…. and work with wage, salary, rewards and privileges. We usually equate work for the money, wage or reward. Everything has its prize. Nothing is free anymore. If you don’t work, you don’t earn. No work, no pay. No pay, no work. And if what you do is not considered as work or labor – like the work of a mother at home – you are  not and should not be paid either.

    This is what Jesus is trying to teach us today in our gospel. Work is not necessarily and always connected with wage or money. Work is more than just receiving or deserving a just payment or wage. There is more value in our human work and labor than just earning money or wage for it. To equate and limit work with wage undermines the dignity of work of God and man. Take for example, the work of mother at home, the work of a priest, a teacher to educate, a doctor to heal, a farmer, a fisherman, and a public servant. Deep inside, we know that the work we do is more than just the wage we receive because we dignify our human labor as our vocation and mission in participation with God’s work.

    Although our capitalistic and consumeristic world today promotes otherwise, Jesus reminds us that human labor is dignified – it is our participation and contribution in God’s work for our redemption and salvation. Perhaps we better reexamine our work ethics – are we in for the money or for the betterment of human world? One thing for sure, in doing God’s work or working with Jesus, there is no seniority, no privileges, no prizes, bonus and rewards, no earlycomers or latecomers, no DTR – daily time record. But everyone receives equally more than what each of us deserved, for what we receives is not Salary or Wage but God’s overflowing Gift and grace of His Redemption and Love, coming out of His generosity.

    Jesus reveals us here the Generous nature of our God and Father whose thoughts and ways are beyond ours. He is a God we are to discover in our daily work with Him, and not in our thoughts and ways. Ours is a Generous God who always provides us with much graces and blessings we need, and through our dignified work we participate and contribute in His work of blessing us all always. God indeed works in His own unique work-ethics – different and beyond our own.

    Which reminds of a story about a bishop who went for a surprised visit to a newly-built chapel “kapilya”. While appreciating the kapilya, a little girl of ten came and asked the bishop: “How do you like our new kapilya?”. The bishop replied, “It’s very nice.” The girl then said, “You know what? I am part of its construction.” Surprised the bishop asked: “How could you?” The girl proudly responded: “When my father, the head carpenter built this kapilya, I brought him “Lunch”. So I’m part of its construction.

    Perhaps we learn something from the work-ethics of the girl. In building God’s Kingdom, Are we part of the construction and harvest, OR are we just hired-paid laborers? Regardless what, when – be it first or last, senior or neophytes, or where we work – be office or home, we better ask ourselves what are we working FOR?

    Pandemic times have rendered much life-challenges. A number of people lose their own jobs, careers & opportunities. Difficult it may be, perhaps this can also be ample time for all of us to review our work-ethics, reevaluate our present jobs, and reconsider some career-shifts that would improve & be more in line with one’s own life-vocation & mission. Grant us, O Lord the grace to discern Your will for us now as we take part in Your better plan always for our best. Amen.

  • FORGIVING

    FORGIVING

    September 17, 2023 – 24th Sunday in Ordinary Time

    Click here for the readings (https://bible.usccb.org/bible/readings/091723.cfm)

    “To err is human, to forgive is divine”. At times easy for us to say these words to make excuses for our wrong-doings and to ask forgiveness for our mistakes. However, same words of excuse we also  use at times to refuse forgiveness to those who have wronged and hurt us. “Pasensya lang, tao lang po.” Words that verily  describe not only our human frailty but also how difficult it is for us to forgive others who have wronged us. Perhaps asking forgiveness is much easier than giving forgiveness, but nevertheless to forgive is indeed difficult, especially whenever it is associated with “forgive and forget”.

    When his disciples asked Jesus how often should we forgive those who have sinned against us, they are just expressing our difficulties in living out and upholding the value of forgiveness in our lives. Yes, like the disciples we see the importance of forgiveness into our lives but we also know how difficult and frustrating forgiveness can be.

    In response to our questions and difficulties with forgiveness, Jesus in our gospel teaches and offers us something more about forgiveness. When he said “not seven times but seventy times seven”, Jesus is telling us to forgive indefinitely. Forgiveness then is not about counting (counting faults, sins, mistakes and forgiveness) but about sharing, giving what you have – without counting the cost or prize. This would also mean that though it is human for us to err and to forgive is divine, nevertheless it also human to forgive. In other words, frail human as we are, we can also forgive and be forgiving of others – how difficult and frustrating it may be. We can still humanely and divinely share forgiveness with one another. 

    And in the parable of “the forgiven but unforgiving servant”, Jesus is teaching us that forgiveness is more than just “forgive and forget”. To forgive for Jesus is all about settling account, paying back, and being patient. Meaning to forgive is not about forgetting but about to evaluate or put value and importance to the action-done, experience-happened and the relationship-build. In other words,  Bigyang halaga at hinidi binabaliwala lamang. So, to forgive is then not to forget but rather to remember (to make and value the experience as part-member of ones life.). It is a decision to give value, importance and responsibility to your action, experience and relationship – and not to get out, get rid, get away from our own mess, but to give God, each others and yourself another chance to grow and live life.  It is also to remember the wrongdoings-done and learn lessons from the mistake. Thus to forgive is perhaps to forget the resentment but moreso, to remember the lessons-learned for the sake of healing & growth. 

    And the message of the parable directs us to “Be forgiving as we are and have been forgiven by God”. Let our reason for forgiving and sharing forgiveness be not ourselves (to feel good) or be not others (to appease) but be God, who forgive and love us first and always. Forgive then not for our’s or other’s sake but for God’s sake. Forgiveness is God’s grace we received and ought to be shared to others. Let our forgiveness be our offering of gratitude for God’s mercy and forgiveness.

    In the Lord’s prayer, Jesus taught us to ask our Father to “Forgive us As we forgive those who have sinned against us”. This is our cry to the Father to give us another chance in life as we try our best to give ourselves and other’s another chance also in life, how difficult it might be. Yes, forgiveness is divinely-granted and also humanly-shared, not to be forgotten but be remembered for its value in life.

    Human as we are, yet are blessed and forgiven, may we be and ought to be forgiving for God’s sake to others especially to those who have wronged and hurt us.

    So be it.