July 13, 2025 – Fifteenth Sunday in Ordinary Time
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A man once happened to fell on a rather deep manhole pit. He really had a hard time to escape from his difficult predicament. So he called for help. It happened that a lawyer passed by, so the man shouted out: “Help”. The lawyer replied: ‘Sorry I cannot help you now. I’m on a hurry for a court hearing. Here is my calling card. Call me later and we will sue the company who dug this pit… Pro bono.’ And so the lawyer took off.
Then a doctor came by and said, ‘Hey, I cannot help you now since I have a scheduled operation. Here are some prescriptions for your bruises. I will call for help. Surely I will help you at the hospital.’ And then the doctor left. A priest also came and said, ‘Sorry, so, I cannot help you right now. My wedding mass is about to start. Here is a rosary, pray till the rescue arrived. We will include you in our prayers also.’ And the priest rushed off.
Now, the man got a lawyer’s calling card, a doctor’s prescription and a priest’s rosary, but still trapped in a manhole. And so his poor neighbor passed by, came over, and saw him. And right there and then, jumped into the pit. The man said to his poor neighbor, ‘How stupid you are. Now both of us are trapped in this pit’. His poor neighbor then replied, ‘Yes, but I know a way out.’
Once again we are reminded today of the Lord’s commandment of Love – that we may inherit eternal life whenever we Love the Lord our God and our neighbor as we love ourselves.
However, based on our experience, this commandment to Love are often nice words to hear but hard to follow, especially on loving our neighbor as ourselves. That is why, knowing the commandment – same way as teacher of the law in the gospel, we also wonder: ‘And who is my neighbor?’ Like him, we know the commandment to love but we also like to know who is our neighbor worthy of our love.
As response, Jesus told us the parable of the Good Samaritan. For Jesus, the neighbor who is worthy of our love is our immediate neighbor. The very person we are with – in the here and now, is the very neighbor who we should love. We don’t need for someone absent and far to be our neighbor to love. But the very persons before and with us now, who need our help and love is our very neighbor we ought to love. To help and love our neighbor, then, we don’t need to look for them somewhere else. Just be aware and conscientious of the people around you in the here and now, and respond lovingly as you can.
Through the parable, Jesus also teaches us the proper way to help our neighbor, and that is: “Before we try to help others, we should immerse and be in solidarity with their difficult situation”. In helping others, dole-outs, give-aways, and reaching-outs are not enough. We need to dive in, get wet or dirty along the way, and journey with them, to free one another from the messy situation.
The Samaritan is good because he is “moved with compassion. Meaning, he felt with (sympathy) & felt for (empathy) with his neighbor. And thus, he fully involved himself in helping the needy. He knew the best way to respond because perhaps he was also once needy and in such worse situation.
Like, the poor neighbor can help the distressed man because he may have been in the same situation before, but he also knows a way out. Others (lawyer, doctor, priest or levites) cannot and was not able to help because they don’t want to be involved and they cannot sympathize because they were not in that situation before, and don’t know a way out. In other words, only swimmers can rescue a drowning person. So, love your immediate neighbor with sympathy & empathy as you can.
In our parish in Dumaguete, when I was the parish priest, we had once a program where we give Christmas gifts to poor parishioners. What makes this program unique is that we arranged the gift-giving wherein the donors themselves go and visit the home of the poor beneficiaries, and give their gifts.
A donor once told me: “Thanks, Father! It is only now I become fully aware of the poverty of our nearby neighbors, especially of Nong Berto’s family who used to drive me to school when I was a little girl before.” Our neighbors then worthy of our love are the very people nearby we immediately see, smell, feel and hear, and whom we feel with & feel for.
Furthermore, remember the Lord in our first reading also emphasized that: “This command is not too mysterious and remote for you, not up in the sky nor across the sea. It is something near to you, already in your mouths, and in your hearts: you have only to carry it out.”
Meaning, we CAN love the Lord and our neighbor as ourselves because “already in our mouths & hearts” since we are also loved by the Lord and our neighbor as ourselves. We can love because we are loved by God and others. We can help and take care of our neighbor because we are also taken cared of by God and helped by neighbors. We can rescue and save others because we are rescued and saved by God and others. And as we love in life, we inherit & share eternal life.
God directs us already what need to be done to: “Love your God and your neighbor as you love yourself.” So, let us do our part in Loving Him and our Neighbor, as He and our neighbor have loved us as ourselves.
By our love, may others also come to know & love God, and also may inherit & share eternal life now & always.
So May It Be. Amen.





