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Category: Fr. Jom Baring, CSsR

  • Looking at Ourselves Closely

    Looking at Ourselves Closely

    October 26, 2025 – 30th Sunday in Ordinary Time

    Click here for the readings (https://bible.usccb.org/bible/readings/102625.cfm)

    “Pigeonholing, labeling or putting a person into a box” – these are expressions that tell us how we have arrived into a conclusion about a person. It is usually in a negative sense and sometimes demeaning and insulting. We experience this when people around us only see and recognize the mistake or failure or sin that we have committed. Our friends, neighbors, colleagues or even family members could believe that we are hopeless and beyond redemption.

    It is devastating to be judged by people around. Such labels make us feel less human. They make us feel undeserving of love and existence. This is because of insulting, demeaning, and degrading labels applied to us. It is as if there is nothing more in us except our sins and failures in life.

    We can also be the one who points our judging finger. We do this because of the mistakes and failures of others in their life. We could also assume as the righteous individual who try scrutinize people, searching for their faults and failures. We could be that mean person. Our main intention is to bring other people down. We shame and gossip about their weaknesses to hide our own sins. And indeed, this happens in our circle of friends, communities and our workplaces.

    I had this classmate who seemed to be always untidy. He was always late and worst would fail in his tests. Yet, when we moved up to the next grade, something surprised us about him. Though he still looked untidy and came late for class, but, his exams got better results. Every time he passed a test, there was malice in our minds. We suspected him to be have been cheating.

    Our classroom adviser could not even believe that he had the potential. Some of us even felt bad whenever he got a higher score than those who usually got high scores.

    We judged him that he did not have the capacity. We judged him of his past behavior and failures. As a result, we failed to recognize that he had actually the capacity. We refused to believe in him because we felt insecure of his capacities and potentials.

    Our expressions like, “Bogo man na siya! Tanga man na siya! Burikat na siya! Kawatan na siya!” – somehow express our insecurity behind our self-righteous words.

    The Gospel of Luke this very Sunday conveys this conscience-disturbing message to us as a Christian Community. Jesus reminds us at the end of the Gospel today, “for whoever exalts himself will be humbled, and the one who humbles himself will be exalted.”

     To become self-righteous blinds us. Thinking highly too much of ourselves prevents us from asking God to show his mercy upon us. Why? because we already think that we do not need God’s mercy.

    Thus, the self-righteous attitude of the Pharisee is basically a denial of God. It was a rejection of God’s mercy because we feel that we do not need God. This attitude leads us to build invisible thick walls that separate us from others.

    We might still have that idea of condemning our brothers and sisters who were considered terrible sinners.

    On this Sunday, Jesus invites us to look closely at ourselves – to examine better our intentions, thoughts and actions. By this awareness it may lead us to recognize as well our failures and sins.

    This was what the Tax Collector showed to us. This was  also the reason why he could not look up to heaven. When he saw himself, he felt disgusted for the sins and failures he had done against God and his neighbors. He must have cheated and stolen a lot of money.

    However, looking at himself, he realized his need of mercy and the need to be converted. That same realization will hopefully lead us to also join the tax collector in praying, “O God, be merciful to me, a sinner.”

    Such prayer and humility reaches the heart of God. The Book of Sirach in the first reading tells us that “the prayer of the lowly pierces the clouds; it does not rest till it reaches its goal.”

    God, our Just Judge, will come to our rescue and show us his mercy when we also begin to honestly acknowledge our sins and failures. The God of Justice listens to our petitions especially when the Lord also finds the poverty in our heart. This means that our heart is empty of any self-righteousness, of any self-satisfaction and self-justification.

    As the Lord defends us and shows us mercy, we are called to be more understanding to those who failed and sinned. Not in the sense of condoning and tolerating such failures and sins. It is important that as we exercise understanding, we also need to confront each other of our mistakes and failures. We are invited to be merciful rather than to be condemning.

    Thus, to both the righteous and the sinners, God does not condemn. God rather desires our healing, reconciliation and fullness of life for all.

    This calls us to see more in the person of our brothers and sisters, to stop our harsh judgments and condemnation. We are called to stop our gossiping, image shaming, name-calling and bullying that only destroy the person of our brother or sister. Such ways of destroying a person is not God’s ways. It is of the devil.

    Today, I would like to invite you – to embrace a family member, a relative, a friend or a neighbor whom we know have sinned against us and those whom we have wronged because of our words and actions. This way, reconciliation and peace begins in us making us witnesses of God’s mercy and forgiveness. Hinaut pa.

  • THE WONDER AND POWER OF PRAYING WITH OTHERS

    THE WONDER AND POWER OF PRAYING WITH OTHERS

    October 19, 2025 – 29th Sunday in Ordinary Time

    Click here for the readings (https://bible.usccb.org/bible/readings/101925.cfm)

    Being with young people in the ministry, allowed me to witness and observe their difficulties as they try to live the faith. My generation, the millennial and even those who are younger than me, usually express the difficulty of consistency in praying.

    Despite the busy environment of the cities, the many distractions brought about by our gadgets, the internet and the need to socialize with others, young people also desire to have deeper grounding. This means that there is a deep desire among the young to connect with God – to be one with Him.

    Yet, the circumstances and particular situations that they are in would sometimes prevent them to be consistent in relating with God through prayer. There are also the personal struggles young people face, or problems in their relationships with their family and friends and demands from work or their studies.

    Thus, prayer is believed to be time-consuming and demanding. At times, it can be tiring. To pray can even be lonely especially when we feel alone and feel that nobody understands us.

    This Rosary Month, every night, our young people in the chaplaincy are visiting homes. And to the families who were visited, surely, you can attest to this. Sometimes they were many, sometimes few. Sometimes they were on time, sometimes late.

    Though I observe from a distance, what touched me deeply is the very presence of our young people. These students must have surely felt tired and exhausted from their academic demands. Yet, they would still make time. Sometimes after the family rosary, they would look broken and annoyed after being scolded and nagged by some elders during the Family Rosary.

    Yet, despite all these, they remained. Constantly reminding and inviting others to join in praying the rosary. Keeping the faith despite many odds.

    We may not realize, yet, prayer indeed moves us. Prayer helps us endure hardships and demands. Prayer gives us strength not to dwell on our weakness but to rely on the grace of God to work in us and with us.

    I find this a moving experience. Again, this reminds me that prayer changes people not just those who are praying but also those who are affected by the prayer in one way or another. What I find more interesting also is by witnessing how powerful prayer can be when we too are with others.

    This reminds me of the readings we have today. In the first reading, Moses raised up his hand in prayer to God. Moses prayed for Israel because an enemy waged war against them. The Book of Exodus recalls how Moses in the long run grew tired. Whenever he let his hands rest, the enemy, Amalek had the advantage of the battle.

    Yet, what is more interesting was the presence of Aaron and Hur. Seeing Moses growing tired in praying, the two helped him by supporting both hands of Moses. Through their support, Moses’ hands remained steady till sunset.

    This tells us that we find more strength in praying with others. When we too are with others even though we feel tired and lonely, the very presence of our dear friends and loved ones could uplift us and inspire us.

    The presence of Aaron and Hur reminded Moses that he was not alone in asking favor from God. Moses became persistent and consistent in praying because Aaron and Hur also joined with him.

    This story may sound primitive but there is wisdom behind here. We find it there the power of praying with our friends. Surely, praying can be tiring as Moses experienced it. It is also time-consuming. It can be emotionally exhausting especially when we are internally and externally troubled. Yet, praying with our friends is different. The company and the assurance that we are not alone, gives us hope.

    Jesus, in the Gospel, reminds us also of the need to pray always and never to give up. The parable of the persistent widow captures that message of Jesus. Moreover, Jesus also emphasized that character of God who pays attention to us and to our prayers. The dishonest judge who gave in to that persistent widow just highlighted the compassionate Father that we have. Indeed, God is most willing to listen to our prayers and grant the deepest desires of our hearts.

    Indeed, the parable is an invitation for all of us to realize the need to pray always without becoming weary or exhausted. But how do we not grow weary? Well, this is where we find the importance and significance of our friends, of our community.

    As this was addressed by Jesus to all the disciples, it is to be understood that prayer becomes our strength, source of comfort and growth in faith. Prayer also becomes our way of life as a community of disciples of Jesus. St. Paul reminds us of this in his 2nd Letter to Timothy, “be persistent whether it is convenient or inconvenient” – since to pray is also a means of proclaiming the Word of God.

    Now, these are the invitations for us today as well as your take-aways

    First, Pray with our friends. Do not be shy or hesitate to ask your friends to pray with you. Even if you are in a public place, pray with your friends. Even if that is through a simple meal that you share at Jollibee or Minute Burger or at a carenderia in ComCent, pray with your friends. Pray with your friends not just during bad and difficult times but also during celebrations and in times of gratitude.

    Second, Pray with the Holy Scriptures. As we pray with our friends, maximize also the gift of the Holy Bible because praying with the Holy Scriptures allows us to discover God’s wisdom and invitations. Maximize it because as St. Paul reminds us, “All Scripture is inspired by God.”

    Third, Pray to confront, to encourage and to embrace. Praying with others is not just about mumbling words or repeating memorized prayers. To pray also becomes our way of confronting ourselves of our sins and failures, to encourage one another through our presence and to embrace each one with love and affection despite our limitations and differences.

    In this way, we allow our faith to grow together as friends and as a community of believers. Hinaut pa.

  • Never will I forget a thing they have done!

    Never will I forget a thing they have done!

    September 21, 2025 – 25th Sunday in Ordinary Time

    Click here for the readings (https://bible.usccb.org/bible/readings/092125.cfm)

    Corruption! When we come to think of it, it seems that such a word has become common. We often hear and read it on newspaper, TV, Social Media platforms and other literature. And because it is so common and even rampant in many aspects of our society. Somehow, corruption has become “part of the normal life of society,[1]” the late Pope Francis told us. Many have denounced corruption. Many have promised to fight against it. Yet, it seemed to be tolerable and acceptable in many instances.

    A friend who owned a restaurant in the city, once shared to me how a government office would ask a percentage from them outside the legal fees. Another friend shared how he became an outcast in their workplace after he had reported to the higher ups his officemate of the anomalous transactions that involved money. That co-worker was fired immediately, yet, my friend became unpopular and was blamed for being inconsiderate to a person who lost a job.

    Because such corrupt practices seemed to become normal (for others it is called as SOP – Standard Operating Procedure), this holds true among our government officials and public offices, companies and organizations, Churches and even down to small communities. Again Pope Francis warned us, “all corruption at the social level is simply the result of a corrupt heart.[2]”

    Today, the Church has called us to rise and demand accountability from our leaders in the country who have plagued the republic with corruption. The systemic dishonesty and plunder are so much overwhelming. Nakakasuka! Ngilngig! It has to stop because what is happening, is evil!

    With this unfortunate reality in the country, this reminds us that wealth and prosperity are not always God’s blessing. Influence and power to dominate are not signs of God’s presence. These material things when enjoyed by the few at the expense of the poor, of the people, have truly gripped the human heart with so much selfishness, apathy and evil.

    With such situation in our country, in our communities and even in our hearts, let us also turn our gaze into the readings today and realize how the Lord invites us in the face of so much corruption, of evil.

    We have actually a puzzling Gospel reading. The master in the story praised the dishonest steward. But does it mean that Jesus also praised those who are dishonest? Certainly, no! It was not the dishonesty of the steward that was praised neither by the master in the story nor by Jesus. Rather, what was praised was the ‘prudence’ of the steward.

    Let us look again how the steward acted prudently. The steward faced with a crisis, he was about to lose his job for being dishonest to his master. In his mind he couldn’t go on by becoming a laborer by digging or by begging. What he did, then, was to take away the commission that he would usually get from the debtors of his master. That is why he asked one debtor to make 50 for the one who owed 100 measures of oil and 80 for the other who owed 100 bushels of wheat.

    Those debtors would be very happy to lessen the burden of such debt. The steward had just thought about his future so that when he will be fired, there will be people who would hire him for a job out of gratitude (or utang kabubut-on) to him.

    This is what Jesus tells us today, that as Christians, we are challenged to be prudent enough. We are called particularly in using and spending our material possessions in the hope of making our relationships with other people to be better.

    For this reason, we are called to be careful that we may not be ‘possessed’ by our own possessions which will only bring us into the danger of indifference and oppression towards the lowly and the poor. This makes the heart to be plagued by that social illness of corruption in our dealings with others and professional practice.

    In this way, a heart that is being possessed by possession, by material wealth turning to be corrupt – has not just committed a crime, but idolatry. Money, material possession or a luxurious life has become the new god of these people. This is the meaning of the words of Jesus, “You cannot serve both God and mammon.”

    There is also a stern warning that we have heard in the first reading from the Book of Prophet Amos. The merchants were extorting the poor. They hoarded the supplies and raised the prices of commodities. Yet, they too brought at the lowest price what they can buy. However, the Lord is not blind. The Lord has sworn, “Never will I forget a thing they have done!” The Lord shall remember evil done by the corrupt.

    Hence, as believers who have come to the knowledge of the truth, as Apostle Paul tells us in the second reading, we are also called to be fair and to be generous enough as we deal with those who are economically/financially struggling.

    It would be a big help to support local vendors and local businesses. Buy products from local peddlers and local farmers. Show fairness with our own business too. Our material possessions can be best employed also in reaching out to others especially the unfortunate.

    Indeed, these are ways of recognizing God as the generous giver of graces. By being grateful to Jesus our Lord, who has given himself as ransom for all, may it move us then to be generous to the needy. This is a way of building relationships with one another, building friendship and helping one another as a community of believers.

    And thus, being wise in investing to what lasts, to friendships and expressing true concern for others – is the spirit of the Kingdom of God.

    In this way, we will be able to guard our hearts from turning to be corrupt. Hinaut pa.

    [1] Pope Francis, The Way of Humility (Claretian Publication: Quezon City, 2014). 10.

    [2] Ibid., 18.

  • For GOD’S Sake

    For GOD’S Sake

    September 21, 2025 – 25th Sunday in Ordinary Time

    Click here for the readings (https://bible.usccb.org/bible/readings/092125.cfm)

    Once a promising young entrepreneur was asked about his secret of success in his business. His reply was like this: “I could have profit up to 30 percent from every transaction I make. But usually, I offer my costumers up to 25 percent discount, thus me only gaining at most, five percent. Yes, money-wise, it is bad business. However, I may have less profit from each transaction, but I have gained more business costumers, contacts, and friends, which thus offers me more business transactions and opportunities.” Clever, isn’t it?

    Amazing it is how clever, smart or sometimes even shrewd we can be when making business deals. Whether it’s buying a used car or selling a house or setting a building projects and programs, all of us learn how to get the most for our money and investments. This is not something new. It’s part of human nature to get the best deal possible.

    And Jesus is all aware of this. The parable he told us about the steward who had to think quick to get himself out of a financial jam, recognized our human resourcefulness, creativity and inventiveness in terms of our dealings with others in this life. The Lord’s point here is that we often demonstrate our intelligence, but we don’t apply this intelligence and shrewdness to the one thing that really matters: our Way of Life as Christian now.

    Consider the number of times we have sat down and worked out how we can use our talents, time, and treasure to be better Christians. Consider the number of times we have thought out how we can put ourselves in situations which would avoid moral problems we have had in the past & even now with blatant corruptions & stupidity around.

    Consider the number of times we have plotted out how we can implant and improve the practice of our Christian faith in our families, communities & society.  If we were to add up the minutes spent a month doing these for God and our Christian life; and then compare them to the hours a month spent working out our financial deals and business investments, would there be any comparison at all?

    Some leaders & people of today, like those in the first reading from the prophet Amos, may have perfected how they can outsmart others. They cheat with their scales. They inflate & launder money, design bogus & ghost projects & stage scams & fake news – or however, you call it nowadays.

    BUT, remember that is not why God gives us intelligence. For God endowed us intelligence & grants us opportunities in this life to make His PRESENCE & ACTIONS real in the world. We must make use of the same cleverness, skill, and plain nerve that the manager in the gospel used to save his skin, and the strategy and tactics that businessman used to secure more business contacts and clients, and all other ways and means to make God’s ways real in our world today.

    Jesus tells us today in our gospel, “Make friends for yourselves through your use of this world’s goods, so that when they fail you, a lasting reception will be yours.” In other words, Jesus is telling us “You have the intelligence, resources and opportunities… use it. Use all these to fulfill the mission you assumed and accepted when I called you to be my disciples. Be SMART FOR Me, then .”

    We thus must make use of our talents, money, and time not as an end but a means in attaining life worthy of God, and in sharing from God’s benefits given us through Christ. We must be as resourceful, and dedicated in the ways of God as we are in the ways of commerce, politics, governance, social relations, and public service.

    In other words, Jesus’ parable challenges us to be SMART FOR GOD’S SAKE, that is – to be as eager, clever, and ingenious for the sake of God’s kingdom; to be as ready and willing to use our talents, time, and resources to accomplish great things for the Gospels as we are to witness & prosper in our Christian faith & lifestyle.

    However, to those who are smart enough to use their intelligence & opportunities for their own personal sake & able to outsmart, corrupt & abuse others & God’s blessings, need not to remind you what Jesus warns us: “(cursed) Woe to you who are rich for you are receiving your comfort in full… to you who are well-fed now, for you will be hungry… to you who laugh now, for you will mourn & weep… to you when people speak well, for their fathers used to treat false prophets the same way”(Lk 6:24-26).

    Be reminded what our Lord also said: “If much has been given to you, much will be demanded; more will be expected of one to whom more has been entrusted” (Lk 12:48), as Scripture has it as well, “The most severe judgment will be set aside for those in high places”. (Wisdom 6:6)

    And so again, in whatever & however circumstances we find ourselves now & in the near future,  FOR GOD’S SAKE (beyond our own), may the Lord ever help us develop more our ingenuity, intelligence, and creativity to promote His Kingdom (not our own) here on earth and in our world to Come now & always.

    Hinaut pa unta. So May It Be. Amen.

  • A Touch that cares, heals and gives Life  

    A Touch that cares, heals and gives Life  

    September 16, 2025 – Memorial of Saints Cornelius, Pope, and Cyprian, Bishop, Martyrs

    Click here for the readings (https://bible.usccb.org/bible/readings/091625.cfm)

    A parent’s touch truly brings relief and comfort to a sick child. A lover’s touch also brings affection and assurance of love. A therapist’s touch certainly brings healing to our aching muscles.

    There is, indeed, life in human touch. Yet, this only happens when our touch is gentle and expressed in kindness and love. When touch is filled with malice and bitterness, then, touch also becomes violent. This touch causes pain and could even abuse life, prevent life and take away life.

    In today’s Gospel reading, we are reminded of the wonder and power of a gentle touch. This is a touch that cares, heals and gives life. Jesus showed this many times in his healing miracles. Moreover, this time, Jesus manifested his gentle and powerful touch in a different level.

    Jesus, as he saw the grief and sorrow of a widowed-mother who lost his only son, was moved with pity. His pity was filled with concern and compassion to a woman who had become hopeless. In a patriarchal society, women had no rights. Her only son was her only hope in life after losing her husband. With both men dead, she was like a “double-dead” person, died twice over again.

    Jesus saw this and felt the seemingly hopeless situation of the mother. Further, Jesus also witnessed how things can be unfair. The young man, who must have died of an illness, lost hope towards maturity. He was deprived of the opportunity to discover and hone his potentials as a young man. He also missed the chance to live life to the fullest.

    The coffin was somehow the very box that deprived both the mother and her son of hope and life. This greatly moved Jesus. As a response, Jesus did not just remain a passerby. “He stepped forward and touched the coffin.”

    “Young man, I tell you, arise!” These words of Jesus renewed hope and life both to the mother and her son who was dead, but was given back the gift of life.

    Jesus touched the coffin! He dared to touch that box that tells us of the deprivation of life. Jesus touched the coffin to renew life and renew hope.

    We may not be dead yet, but, we too might be already in a coffin, limited in a box of pain and trauma, of loneliness and sadness, of anger and sin. Like the mother, we too might be grieving because of our frustrations and failures, unable to see hope and life. Life can be so unfair for us, leading us to our overwhelming burial of suffocation.

    Yet, life is not hopeless at all. There is always hope. Jesus sees and feels our own pain and difficulties. In the same way, the Lord desires to touch our own coffins. He wants to bring life to whatever is preventing and depriving us of living fully.

    Let us allow the Lord to gently touch us through the sacraments of the Church. These sacraments truly bring grace of peace, healing, and life. Allow the Lord to touch our hearts through the Holy Scriptures, through His words that will challenge and move us towards hope and life. We allow the Lord to continually touch us through the concern and love of our friends and family members.

    For each of us, once again, let us be more conscious that our own touch may always be gentle that definitely expresses care, brings healing and life. Hinaut pa.