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  • Facing Giants Without Losing the Heart

    Facing Giants Without Losing the Heart

    January 21, 2025 – Wednesday of the Second Week of Ordinary Time; Memorial of St. Agnes, Virgin and Martyr

    Click here for the readings (https://bible.usccb.org/bible/readings/012126.cfm)

    Most of us know what it feels like to be intimidated. It may not be a person shouting at us, but a problem that keeps standing in our way. For some, it is a failing grade that threatens one’s future. For others, it is a broken relationship, a sickness that refuses to go away, a job suddenly lost, or a habit we promised many times to stop but still control us. These problems do not come politely. They pressure us, exhaust us, and slowly make us believe that we are small and helpless.

    This is where today’s readings speak clearly. In the first reading, we met David facing Goliath. David was young, untrained for war, and clearly outmatched. Goliath was not only big. He was meant to terrify and crush enemies. He mocked, threatened, and paralyzed an entire army. Yet, David stepped forward, not because he was strong, but because he knew he was not alone. He said with quiet confidence that the battle belongs to the Lord. David did not deny the size of the giant. He simply trusted more in the presence of God than in the power of fear.

    The Gospel of Mark shows another kind of giant. Jesus faced the hardness of heart of the Pharisees. A man with a withered hand stood before Him. The leaders were watching closely, not to help, but to accuse. Jesus knew that healing on the Sabbath will cause trouble. Still, He chose mercy. He allowed compassion to speak louder than fear. The real sickness in the story was not the man’s hand, but hearts that prefer rules over life.

    Here we see one clear truth that indeed, true courage is choosing life and faithfulness to God, even when fear and pressure are strong.

    This same courage shines in the life of St. Agnes, virgin and martyr. She was very young, yet she faced threats, humiliation, and death because she refused to give up her faith and dignity. Her bullying giant was not physical strength, but fear. It was the fear of pain, rejection, and death. Agnes did not overcome this by force. She overcame it by trusting God completely. Like David, she knew who stood with her. Like Jesus, she chose faithfulness over safety.

    Our giants today may look different, but they work the same way. Fear tells us to keep quiet, to settle, to hide, to give up what is right because it is easier. Fear tells us we are alone. Faith reminds us that God is present, even when the outcome is uncertain.

    The message is not that we will always win easily. David still had to step forward. Jesus still faced anger. Agnes still suffered. But none of them let fear decide who they were.

    When we face our own giants which could be a form of addiction, loneliness, injustice, or discouragement, we are invited to do the same. We are called to trust God, seek help, and choose what gives life.

    Thus, I leave you today two takeaways.

    First, name your giant honestly. Do not deny it, but do not face it alone. Instead, pray and seek help from someone you trust.

    Second, choose one small act of courage today, even if fear is still there. Faith grows when we move forward despite it. Hinaut pa.

  • God Looks at the Heart

    God Looks at the Heart

    January 20, 2026 – Tuesday of the Second Week in Ordinary Time

    Click here for the readings (https://bible.usccb.org/bible/readings/012026.cfm)

    Jesus often made people uncomfortable, especially those who thought they were already right with God. In today’s Gospel, the Pharisees watched Him closely, not to learn, but to find fault. They complained because His disciples picked grain on the Sabbath. For them, the law mattered more than hunger, more than people, more than life itself.

    The Sabbath, which was meant to be a gift, had become a burden. Something meant to give rest had turned into a tool for control. A hungry person could not eat. A suffering person could not be helped. All because the “rule” had become more important than mercy. Jesus saw this clearly and said it plainly, “The sabbath was made for man, not man for the sabbath.” God’s law is meant to give life, not to choke it.

    This same problem is already present in the First Reading from the First Book of Samuel. Samuel was sent to choose a new king among the sons of Jesse. Naturally, Samuel was impressed by the tall, strong, and confident sons. They looked like kings. But God stopped him and said something very important, “Not as man sees does God see; man looks at appearances, but the Lord looks at the heart.” In the end, God chose David, the youngest, the least noticed, and the one left tending the sheep.

    This brings into the realization that when we focus only on appearances, rules, and status, we miss the heart of God.

    The Pharisees saw a violation of the law but missed hungry men. Samuel saw strong bodies but almost missed a faithful heart. In ordinary life, we could fall into the same trap. We judge quickly. We complain easily. We focus on what is “wrong” rather than what is needed. We protect rules, routines, and even our religious practices, but sometimes forget compassion.

    You know, Jesus is not against the Sabbath. God is not against leadership or structure. What both reject is a faith that forgets people. If our religious practice makes us hard, judgmental, and bitter, then something is wrong. If our sacrifices prevent kindness, then they are no longer pleasing to God.

    God chose David not because he was perfect, but because his heart was open. Jesus defended His disciples not because rules do not matter, but because mercy matters more. God’s question is never, “Did you follow every rule?” but rather, “Have you given life?”

    This challenges us to look honestly at ourselves. We may ask, “What do we see first, rules or people? Faults or needs? Appearances or hearts? It also challenges us to ask, “What kind of God do I really worship? A God of love and mercy, or a god made of rules, pride, and status?”

    Jesus invites us back to the center. Faith is not about winning arguments or pointing out mistakes. Faith is about choosing what gives life. Like David, we may feel small or unnoticed, but God sees our heart. Like the disciples, we may be judged by others, but Jesus stands with those who choose life. Hinaut pa.

  • Listening Is Better Than Explaining

    Listening Is Better Than Explaining

    January 19, 2026 – Monday of the Second Week in Ordinary Time

    Click here for the readings (https://bible.usccb.org/bible/readings/011926.cfm)

    Most of us want a life that feels safe and predictable. We follow routines, hold on to habits, and protect traditions because they give us a sense of control. We know what to expect, and that feels comforting. But slowly, without noticing it, what once helped us can begin to trap us. We start doing things not because they give life, but simply because “this is how it has always been.”

    In the Gospel of Mark, Jesus uses simple images: old cloth, new cloth; old wineskins, new wine. He is not attacking tradition. He is pointing out something deeper. When God is doing something new, old containers may no longer be able to hold it. New wine needs fresh wineskins, not because the old ones are bad, but because they have become rigid.

    The same struggle appears clearly in the First Reading from the First Book of Samuel. King Saul follows God’s command only halfway. He defeats the enemy, but keeps what he personally considers useful. When confronted by the prophet Samuel, Saul explains himself, even claiming he did it “for God.” Samuel’s response is sharp and unforgettable, “Obedience is better than sacrifice.” Indeed, God is not impressed by religious excuses. What the Lord desires is a listening heart.

    This makes us realize that God desires obedience that flows from a listening and open heart, not from rigid practices that protect our comfort.

    Saul thought sacrifice could cover disobedience. The people questioning Jesus thought fasting defined holiness. In both cases, the problem is the same. People believed and were more attached to their way of doing things than to what God was actually asking of them at that moment.

    This is where the message becomes very close to our daily life. Sometimes we are like Saul. We obey, but only up to the point where it does not disturb us too much. We pray, but avoid forgiveness. We serve, but refuse correction. We keep traditions, but resist change when God asks us to grow.

    Jesus does not come to destroy what is old. He comes to fulfill it. But fulfillment always involves change. New wine stretches us. It questions habits that no longer give life. It exposes excuses that sound religious but hide fear.

    God’s invitations often feel uncomfortable because they ask us to listen more deeply and let go of control. But this discomfort is not meant to break us. It is meant to renew us. Like fresh wineskins, we are called to remain flexible, humble, and attentive to God’s voice.

    The real question is not, “Am I doing religious things?” The real question is, “Am I truly listening to God today?” As Samuel reminds us, God prefers a heart that listens over hands that perform rituals.

    When we allow God to surprise us, we discover that His call, though challenging, always leads to life, healing, and deeper freedom. With that, I leave you two takeaways for today.

    First, pause and listen before acting. Ask daily, “Lord, what are You asking of me now, not yesterday?”

    Second, let go of one habit that no longer gives life. Replace it with one concrete act of obedience, however small, but begin today. Hinaut pa.

  • When God Chooses to Be Small    

    When God Chooses to Be Small    

    January 18, 2026 – Sunday, Feast of the Sto. Niño

    Is 9:1-6; Eph 1:3-6, 15-18; Mt 18:1-5,10

    Every year, around the Feast of the Sto. Niño, I remember a simple scene I once witnessed during a Sunday Mass. A young mother was struggling with her toddler who was restless, noisy, and clearly bored. Trying to control the child, she whispered, though loud enough for others to hear, “Behave. Stop it. Father will get angry. Look, he’s watching you.” The child suddenly froze, his eyes wide with fear, clutching his mother’s arm.

    I gently smiled at the boy and said, “That’s not true. I’m not angry. You can move, it’s okay.” Slowly, the fear left his face.

    That small moment stayed with me. Because without realizing it, many of us grow up learning to associate God, the Church, and faith with fear rather than love. We are taught to be quiet, to behave, to obey, but often through fear. In fact, a friend shared with me as well how she felt uncomfortable at first to bring their baby to the Church. She’s afraid that the grown-ups might stare harshly to her and her toddler when the boy would make some noise in the Church.

    And yet today, on the Feast of the Sto. Niño, God reminds us of something deeply important: God chose not to come to us as someone to be feared, but as a child to be loved.

    This is the heart of today’s feast. God chooses to be small so that no one will be afraid to come close.

    In the first reading from Isaiah, we hear a message spoken to a people who were living in darkness. This darkness was caused by suffering, injustice, violence, and fear. And into that darkness, the prophet proclaimed hope: “The people who walked in darkness have seen a great light.” But how does that light come? It comes not through power, not through force, and certainly not through fear. Isaiah said clearly: “For a child is born to us, a son is given us.”

    This is God’s surprising way. When the world expects strength, God gives a child. When the world uses violence, God responds with gentleness. When hearts are burdened by sin, guilt, and pain, God offers light, forgiveness, and peace. The Sto. Niño is God’s answer to our wounded world.

    Saint Paul, in his letter to the Ephesians, deepened this message. He told us that we have been chosen and blessed by God in Christ even before we deserved it. God did not wait for us to be perfect. God chose us out of love. And Paul prayed that our hearts may be enlightened, that we may truly see the hope to which we are called.

    This is important. Many people today live with wounded hearts. Families are burdened by poverty, stress, anger, and fear. Children grow up not always feeling safe, sometimes even in their own homes. During the pandemic, studies showed a rise in violence against children, abuse, and deep emotional distress. Many suffered quietly, unseen and unheard.

    And this is where today’s Gospel becomes very concrete and very challenging.

    In the Gospel of Matthew, Jesus himself brought a child in the midst of the disciples. Why? Because in that culture, children were considered unimportant, a disturbance, and a waste of time. They had no status, no voice, and no power.

    Moreover, in Mark’s Gospel Jesus also said, “Let the children come to me. Do not prevent them.” And more than that, Jesus embraced them blessed them and placed them at the center.

    This is not just a sweet scene. It is a strong message of the Lord for all his disciples. Jesus rejects a culture that ignores, silences, or hurts the small and the weak. He tells us clearly that if we want to understand God, we must look at a child. If we want to enter the Kingdom, we must learn the humility, trust, and openness of a child.

    This is why the Sto. Niño is so powerful for us Filipinos. The image of the Child Jesus reminds us that God stands with the weak, the forgotten, and the wounded. God condemns attitudes that reject, ignore, or abuse the small especially children.

    And we must be honest. Sometimes, even without intending it, we hurt children with our words, our anger, our indifference, or our silence. Sometimes, we use fear instead of love. Sometimes, we choose convenience over protection. And Jesus is very clear that this must not be so.

    Yet, today’s feast is not meant to condemn us. It is meant to call us back to light, to mercy, to hope.

    The world may be darkened by violence, corruption, abuse, torn by war and indifference. Our hearts may carry pain, guilt, and brokenness. But God still chooses to be born among us. God still chooses to come as a child. God still chooses to bring light.

    So what does this feast invite us to do as ordinary Christians? There are four takeaways you can bring at home.

    First, learn again how to see God not as someone who frightens, but as someone who embraces us. Remember, faith grows not through fear, but through love. Let us teach our children that God is safe, merciful, and close to us.

    Second, let us become protectors of the small and the weak. This is not optional. It is a Gospel demand for us. Every child deserves safety, dignity, and love. Every decision we make, you as parents, leaders, neighbors, and community members, must be measured by this question, “Does this protect and nurture life, especially the most vulnerable?”

    Third, never use fear to represent God. Use patience, understanding, and love. The Sto. Niño teaches us that God draws near gently.

    Fourth, be a light for a child today. Do this through listening, protecting, correcting with love, or simply being present. Indeed, small acts matter as well.

    Thus, today God reminds us that greatness is not found in power, but in love. Not in control, but in care. Not in fear, but in trust. May the Sto. Niño dispel the darkness in our hearts and teach us again how to live as children of light. Hinaut pa.

  • Baptized to Become the Compassion of Christ

    Baptized to Become the Compassion of Christ

    January 11, 2025 – Feast of the Baptism of the Lord

    Click here for here for the readings (https://bible.usccb.org/bible/readings/011126.cfm)

    On this Feast of the Baptism of the Lord, we are invited not simply to recall a moment in the life of Jesus, but to look deeply and honestly at our own lives as baptized Filipinos. This feast quietly yet firmly asks us: What has our baptism truly done to us, and what is it asking of us today?

    The Philippines remains one of the most religious countries in the world. According to data from the Philippine Statistics Authority, nearly 79 percent of Filipinos still identify as Roman Catholic.[1] Prayer, devotion to saints, novenas, and religious fiestas continue to shape our culture. At the same time, recent surveys reveal a growing tension beneath the surface. A Social Weather Stations survey reported that while about seven out of ten Filipinos[2] say they pray daily, far fewer attend Mass regularly, especially among the younger generation. Many still believe, but many also struggle to connect faith with daily decisions, social issues, and moral responsibility. Faith is present, but often fragile, routine, or confined to our rituals.

    Thus, this reality invites us to examine ourselves. Have we really grown in our faith? Have we deepened our relationship with God and with one another? But, let us remember, our faith cannot be reduced to kneeling and standing, holding a rosary, or faithfully reciting novenas though these are also important practices.

    As sociologist Dr. Jayeel Cornelio has observed, many Filipinos today are searching for something “more” from their faith.[3] This “more” is not about abandoning Catholic tradition, but about longing for a faith that transforms life, confronts injustice, heals wounds, and gives direction amid uncertainty. This “more” is precisely what the Feast of the Baptism of the Lord places before us.

    To discern this “more,” let us allow the Word of God proclaimed to us on this Sunday to guide us.

    In the first reading from the Prophet Isaiah, we hear about the Servant of the Lord. This Servant is chosen, beloved, and pleasing to God. God’s Spirit rests upon him. But what defines this Servant most clearly is not power or dominance, but compassion. He brings justice not through violence or force, but through gentleness. Isaiah tells us that a bruised reed he shall not break, and a smoldering wick he shall not quench. This Servant does not crush the weak; instead, he protects what is fragile, restores hope to the weary, and lifts those bowed down by suffering. He opens blind eyes and frees prisoners living in darkness. God’s justice, as Isaiah presents it, heals and restores before it confronts and corrects.

    The Psalm continues this vision in a quiet but powerful way: “The Lord will bless his people with peace.” This peace is not simply the absence of conflict. It is the peace that flows from living in God’s presence, from recognizing that God is active in creation and present in every human life. When we truly acknowledge God’s presence in everything and everyone, respect and reverence naturally follow. Peace then becomes something we embody and share, not just something we pray for.

    This promise finds its fulfillment in the Acts of the Apostles. Peter proclaims that the Servant spoken of by Isaiah is Jesus of Nazareth. He is anointed with the Holy Spirit and power, and His life is marked by a simple yet profound description: He went about doing good and healing those oppressed by the devil. These words summarize the entire mission of Jesus. He restores dignity, heals brokenness, and brings hope to those crushed by sin, fear, and injustice. This is how God chooses to be revealed and not through domination, but through mercy.

    All of this reaches its deepest meaning in today’s Gospel, the Baptism of the Lord. Jesus enters the waters of the Jordan, not because He needs repentance, but because He chooses full solidarity with humanity. His immersion in the water is an act of complete trust in the Father. As the Psalm proclaims, the voice of the Lord is over the waters, and Jesus allows Himself to be embraced by the Father’s will.

    As He rises from the water, the Spirit descends like a dove. This moment reveals that God is not distant or unreachable. God’s Spirit rests upon Jesus and remains with Him. Then comes the voice from heaven: “You are my beloved Son, with you I am well pleased.” These words echo Isaiah’s prophecy and confirm Jesus as the beloved Servant. He is sent to bring healing, justice, and peace.

    This feast today speaks directly to our own baptism as well. In baptism, we too are claimed as beloved. We too have received the Spirit. We too are sent. This is where we discover the “more” that many Filipinos are longing for in their faith. Baptism does not make us passive believers. Rather, it calls us to become active disciples of Jesus.

    We are reminded first that we are deeply loved. This truth alone has the power to heal many wounds, fears, and insecurities. In a society facing economic pressures, environmental threats, and growing inequality, our identity as beloved children of God becomes our deepest strength. We are also reminded that God’s presence is not far away. The Spirit of God dwells among us, in our families, workplaces, classrooms, and communities. We do not need to search only in the clouds to find God. We too are invited to recognize the Lord here and now.

    Our baptism also carries a clear responsibility. We are called to bring justice and peace, not through anger or force, but through compassion and gentleness. Isaiah reminds us that true justice protects the weak and restores hope.

    To live our baptism is to participate in the ministry of Jesus and that is to open our eyes blinded by greed, pride, and indifference, and to free hearts imprisoned by hatred, guilt, and sin.

    As we look ahead to 2026, Filipinos face serious challenges. We have economic uncertainty, the worsening effects of climate change on vulnerable communities, and a growing temptation to reduce faith to mere ritual. The Feast of the Baptism of the Lord calls us back to the heart of discipleship. The “more” in our faith is “to make Jesus more present in our actions, more present in our words, and more present in our homes and communities.”

    Let me leave you with two simple reminders to carry with you now:

    First. Live your baptism daily. Let love, honesty, and compassion shape your choices.

    Second. Be Christ where you are. In your family, your work, and your community, allow others to encounter Jesus through you.

    May the grace of our baptism continue to renew us, strengthen us, and send us forth as bearers of God’s peace. Hinaut pa.

    [1] https://www.bworldonline.com/the-nation/2023/02/22/506351/catholics-make-up-nearly-79-of-philippine-population/

    [2] https://www.pna.gov.ph/articles/1195717

    [3] See https://www.ucanews.com/news/young-filipinos-keep-the-faith-but-shun-conventional-piety/97562