Author: A Dose of God Today

  • JESUS’ ADVICE

    JESUS’ ADVICE

    July 16, 2023 – 15th Sunday in Ordinary Time

    Click here for the readings (https://bible.usccb.org/bible/readings/071623.cfm)

    As we struggle with the day-to-day challenges of CoVID virus has posted on us, somehow, we also wonder what would be the best guidance and advice God is giving us at new normal times. Yes, life during CoVID virus has been constricting and stressful. We find ourselves mostly reactive to the reality that we think about whether our actions are in sync with God’s will and plan. So, what would be the best way for us to be always online & in sync with God?

    Our Scripture and Christian faith tradition have a very simple advice & protocol: LISTEN TO HIM.

    We remember many instances in Jesus’ life that the challenge of us listening to Him has been clearly given importance. At the beginning of His public ministry to proclaim the good news of salvation, Jesus said: “Today these words come true as you listen.” Also, during the Lord’s transfiguration, the disciples heard God instructing them: “This is my beloved Son, whom my favor rests. Listen to Him”. And in our gospel today, in telling and explaining to us the parable of the sower, Jesus challenges us “Whoever has ears ought to hear”.

    Our listening is indeed crucial to our faith-life. By listening to Jesus – God’s word for us, as our first reading suggest, we are part of and in line with God’s work of salvation and can benefit from the fruits of His labor. Paul reminds us that being connected with Christ assures us that “the suffering now are nothing compared with the glory to be revealed.” Jesus in our gospel made known to us how blessed and privileged we are for our faith makes us see and hear what “many prophets and righteous people longed to see what you see but did not see it, and to hear what you hear but did not hear it.” Same way as any loving relationship, good listening and communication are very important to our faith relationship with God

    Simple as it maybe, but we do have some problems with listening. Experience teaches us that in life it is not always easy to listen. We may have heard what has been said but we may have not listened to it. Or, it could happen that the other have not yet fully said what he wants to say or we may not yet have fully listen to him, we are already thinking of what and how are we going to respond to the other. It could also happen that while we are listening to the other, there are a lot of noisy things and concerns that we are also listening to and hearing with.

    It is very true that we do have limited listening span and selective hearing. Meaning, we listen only in our limited ways, and listen to what we want to hear from what was being said. That is why selective and limited listening or not enough listening would resort to conflict, tensions, and misunderstandings. We heard what has been said but do we listen to it? We may have heard it but are we listening to what has been said?

    For instance, our gospel today is not anymore new to us. We are already familiar and have known about the Parable of the Sower. Surely many times we have already heard this parable. In fact, of all the parables that Jesus have already told us, the parable of the sower is among the few parables which he gave an explanation. True we may have already heard this parable before and may have already understood its meaning. But did we listen to it? Are we listening to it? If we don’t see and hear it calling us to listen, then we are not listening and don’t get it.

    Long before it was written and read, God’s words are primarily spoken and proclaimed to us and are meant to be heard and listen by us. The mission of Jesus is to speak, preach and proclaim the God’s Word, the Good News of Salvation. Meaning, our rightful response to God’s Word being preached to us is first to listen to it. Only through our listening that we could understand, and in effect benefit and enjoy the fruits of God’s salvation. Like David, if we want to taste and see God’s glory and salvation, we should learn how to listen intently to God’s Message and Plans through Jesus, His word. For those who listen well, they bear much fruits.

    Jesus has thus already done and doing His part in Proclaiming God’s words. Ours now is to do our part in listening and obeying God’s Word. Let anyone of us then who have ears: Listen, and heed what we hear.

    Amidst our now noisy worrisome and depressing so-called “New Normal” world, may we be more sensitive to listen God’s message & plans, thus be guided and inspired to rightly respond to its challenges for our trying times now & always. Amen.

  • What God Can Do with a “NOBODY”…

    What God Can Do with a “NOBODY”…

    July 9, 2023 – 14th Sunday in Ordinary Time

    Click here for the readings (https://bible.usccb.org/bible/readings/070923.cfm)

    Of all human vices, pride is the greatest and highest evil. Compared to selfishness, greed and lust, pride is more dangerous. For example, temper is what gets us into trouble, but pride is what keeps us in trouble. As what the man who caused a bad accident with road rage on others, said: “Good for him. He has been road-cutting & racing with me. See, who is the best of us, now?” (“Ahh, maayo ra pud. Sige man gud na siya’g mikiglumba nako. Na tagam. Unya kinsa may hawod nato ron, bi?)”

    Jesus in the Gospel gives praise to his Father for his love of the simple and the humble. After proclaiming the Good News to different towns & villages, and revealing Himself as the Son of God, Jesus was rejected & not recognized by most people except some few others. “I thank you Father,” he says, “that you have hidden these things from the wise and learned, and revealed them to simple people.” He said these words because of his experience of pride that corrupts the proud-hearted, and also those who are pained & devastated due to the pride of others. Jesus did not condemn intelligence; what he condemns here is intellectual pride, that does not only cause people to sin & in the state of sinfulness, but above all, blocks people to receive & recognize the Good News being offered right in from of them.

    Due to pride, our hearts, minds, souls, & persons may be corrupted, closed, stony & even beyond redemption. And whenever we think or consider ourselves better, more, or superior than others, the sin and vice of pride are at work, and always dangerous. And so, be warned & beware of our Pride for it would take lots of humbling experiences for us to finally swallow or surrender our pride.

    That is why Jesus praised the humble & simple-hearted little ones, because they are open to recognize & receive God’s graces & blessings in their lives. Because they know that they don’t know & accept their ignorance & limits, the humble & meek ordinary people are wise-enough to be familiar with & to readily recognize the Messiah-with-us whom God reveals to us. God’s grace is really upon us & remains always with us, in humility, not pride; with the humble, not the proud.

    Jesus also challenges us here to be humble, simple & ordinary with our faith in Him. He calls us to deny ourselves, carry our crosses & follow Him. Meaning, he simply what us to live our lives with Him. He does not require us to study or understand, but to accept, recognize & believe in Him. Not to bear Him in our pride & sinfulness, but to take on the cross & responsibility for His mission of redemption for all. And we can only fulfill all these by means of our humble, simple, ordinary faith & life witness, & not through our pride.

    A biblical scholar once said, “Moses spent forty years thinking he was Somebody, then he spent another forty years in the desert realizing that he was Nobody; but finally, he spent the last forty year of his life, learning what God can do with a Nobody! 

    Remember, even the most uneducated or illiterate among us could understand and live with the mysteries of God’s kingdom, if we are simple and humble of heart and mind before God and others. 

    Lord, remove pride in our hearts & keep us always humble & simple, and Your better plans, ways & will be done in us always & forever. Amen.

  • Of Being Social-Distanced

    Of Being Social-Distanced

    July 2, 2023 – 13th Sunday in Ordinary Time

    Click here for the readings (https://bible.usccb.org/bible/readings/070223.cfm)

    During these past few years, we come to experience and be familiar with the term: “social distancing”. To protect ourselves from Corona Virus infection, nowadays we normally resort to social distancing. To avoid being infected by others or possibly infect others as well, we now set apart and maintain a safe distance from others as we assume that the world around us is still sick, and we can easily get sick. Safe and practical it is and would be, social distancing is never been that easy as observed and practiced. Simply because social distancing is particularly painful to us  for it requires of us not only the physical bodily distance but also the  experience of being and feeling isolated, lonely and cast-out/cast-off from one another. Being physically quarantined, isolated, set apart, distanced, marginalized, suspected, and monitored could make us also personally feel marginalized, segregated, ostrasized, stigmatized, outcasted, feared, unwelcome, abandoned, lost and forgotten. With or without viral pandemic, physical and social distancing has always been painful and difficult (even traumatic) experience for all of us for it deprives us of our need for personal intimacy, closeness and relationships. In other words, social distancing hurts because it is not only physical but also personal.

    It is but natural and life-giving for us to connect, relate and interact as persons. More just being social animals, social inter-actions and interpersonal relationships are very important dimension of our lives. And a song would insist, “No man is an island.. No one stands alone.” We are not just being with others but we are human PERSONS with others. We grow, live and thrive in life as community of persons: Persons related and relating with others personally. That is why to live life alone, distance, and isolated is difficult, painful and discouraging indeed.

    Our readings today reminds of the great value of our interpersonal relationships both in life and faith. Jesus in our gospel today appeals for us to “receive me”, “love me”, “follow me”. He invites us to have a personal intimate relationship with Him. Like any of us, he wants us to be close to Him as much as He wants to be close with us personally. Being Christian, as Paul emphasized, we are WITH Christ: personally related with Jesus in death, life and resurrection. And like in the first reading, to be personally welcoming  and hospitable host to our guests would blessed and graced us with the gifts of their person, to receive and love the person Jesus in our lives personally is to personally be with and share with His divine life with our Father.

    Personal intimacy, closeness and connected with Jesus and with one another as community is indeed promising and life-giving. While social distancing and isolation is sickening and life-threatening indeed.

    While we suffer physically and personally with social distancing  for safety and protection from infection, we may take this trying times as opportunity for us to review, reflect and renew the quality of our personal relationships with God, with our family and friends and our community. Just because we are physically constrained and apart, it does not mean we are not and cannot anymore be connected with one another personally. Distancing thus could also be a chance to improve the quality of our faith, personal life and inter-personal relationships.

    For instance, social distancing may had deprived of us then to celebrate Sunday Eucharist and worship as community of faith, but it could also make us improve the quality of our Spiritual Communion with Jesus and our participation as we hope and look forward to the coming opportune time for celebration. We also may find more quantity and quality time and improved lifestyle with our own selves and with our loved ones now, and thus be in touch with most essential and important in ones life.

    In other words, since social distancing is personal, so let us make it more personal, let us get more and Better Personal…. And improve the Quality of our personal, social and spiritual life during this time.

    On my fifty-ish age and have gone thru my silver years as Redemptorist missionary priests, perhaps my musings below could be of assistance in reflecting about our experience of social distancing nowadays:

    “Paradox of being with others”

    Along the way, we suffer two things being with others: too much & too little – of closeness and distance. Too much and too little Closeness & too much and too little Distance. Coping with these both blocks our growth in relationships as well as forms and sharpens us to be better person for and with others. Ultimately it moves us to be intimately independent as well as independently intimate with one another.

    As we are personally in faith with the Lord, may we communally not be separated from Him and one another,  and  may we not lose life but rather find Life meaningfully. Amen.

  • Reflection on the Feast of Our Mother of Perpetual Help 2023

    Reflection on the Feast of Our Mother of Perpetual Help 2023

    Drawing strength and inspiration from the recent events in my professional & spiritual life, I am sharing this reflection to all the followers of this beautiful blog, “A Dose of God Today”.

    This day, June 28, 2023, we celebrated our Parish Fiesta in honor of Our Mother of Perpetual Help here at St. Clement’s Church, Redemptorists, La Paz, Iloilo City.

    As one of the volunteer counselors of our St. Clement’s Pastoral Care & Counseling Ministry, this year’s fiesta theme “Hands of Mary, Hands of Hope resonates well with me.

    Looking back on how I started my devotion to this blessed image, brought me to acknowledge the hands of Mary – the hands of God in the unfolding of the events in my life. As early as elementary days, we gather as a family to pray the Holy Rosary each night. During Wednesdays, my late mother would lead the novena prayer to Our Mother of Perpetual Help. Being a college student at Iloilo Normal School (now West Visayas State University – my current workplace), her strong devotion to the Blessed Mother became a solid foundation of our family’s spiritual life. She inspired & taught us to become closer to Jesus through Mama Mary. This, too, I know has been contributory to my decision to join the Redemptorists as Lay Vocation Promoter/Guidance Counselor for fifteen (15) years. I always behold Mama Mary’s loving care in those precious years which deepened & concritized my being a missionary partner of the Redemptorists. I have been growing & flourishing in all aspects of my life.

    After my missionary endeavors with the Redemptorists, I treaded a different path: counseling and teaching in the academe. I always recognize God’s hands in the scheme of things in my new life. Due to my immense love for Mama Mary & Jesus, I started to answer a calling to found the St. Clement’s Pastoral Care & Counseling Ministry together with my counselor-friends and two young Redemptorists, Fr. Jom & Fr. Deriz.

    Weeks before the fiesta of Our Mother of Perpetual Help, I had been crazy busy as the Associate Dean of our Graduate School. There were no appointments and referrals for counseling. I know Mama Mary has been taking good care of me during these challenging times. She allowed me to rest- practice Self-care on Sundays even if it’s my turn to be on duty at our Pastoral Care Office since there were no clients in need. When I was able to regain my strength and ready to serve again, a new client asked for a counseling appointment. So I have a reason to be available on that Sunday. In the course of our counseling session, I was teary-eyed and a deep sense of joy wrapped around me as I was listening to the narration of my client. In the road to recovery from a major setback in life, she recognized God’s and Mama Mary’s hands. One of the protective factors she pointed out was her parent’s prayerful and deep connectiom with Jesus/God.

    I know that our fiesta’s theme: “Mary’s hands, hands of hope – are words made true in the life of my client. Indeed, I am always hopeful that our clients in the ministry will recover & get healed.

    God through the intercession of Mama Mary has arranged the events which allowed me to join the Procession & Parish Night with another volunteer counselor. It is Providential that today is a holiday – thus we both were able attend the Fiesta Mass. We also shared the meal with the Redemptorist Community after a simple yet beautiful and inspiring mass. The preacher who was a young Redemptorist priest shared a very deep and moving life story of how Mama Mary played a crucial role in his journey as a Redemptorist priest – brought him closer to Jesus and answer the call to be of service to the needy and the most abandoned.

    These events inspired me to continue to serve as a Volunteer Counselor & Directress of Our St. Clement’s Pastoral Care & Counseling Ministry. Being a partner in the Redemptorist missions calls for a deeper commitment to love and serve the needy. With huge responsibilities and a plate full of tasks, I am not hesitant to devote my time during weekends to this ministry. This apostolate draws me to be closer to Jesus. Through the intercession of Mary – Her Hands, Hands of Hope- I am entrusting my professional life and our apostolate to Jesus through Mama Mary. With a deep faith in these two central figures in my spiritual life, I resolved to be an instrument of healing and recovery.

    Thus, let us be open to the promptings of the Holy Spirit so that God’s/Jesus’ and Mama Mary’s hands will be instrumental in our desire to be of service to humanity. VIVA MARIA!!! VIVA JESUS!!!

  • Judging others

    Judging others

    June 26, 2023 – Monday of the 12th Week in Ordinary Time

    Click here for the readings (https://bible.usccb.org/bible/readings/062623.cfm)

    Moral life is all about our practice of christian faith in life. It begs the question as to how we live out our lives as we believe in Jesus.

    We do live nowadays in a world in which it is very common to judge, criticize, & condemn other. Easy for us to see the failures & mistakes of others, dwell on their sins, points out their weaknesses, & speak of their faults to others. Yes, we do have the tendency & the habit to judge, criticize, & condemn others, that greatly influence our thinking, attitude & actions towards others.

    In this regard, Jesus teaches & advices us to “stop judging… stop measuring others”. Meaning, to stop the habit of judging, criticizing & condemning others.” Why? Because the habit corrupts our very person. Such habit not only unhealthy & harmful to the judged other, but above all to the judging person. Judging, criticizing & condemning others makes us not only sinful, but above all corrupt persons.

    Pope Francis, once said: “We are all sinners, but we are not all corrupt. Sinners are accepted but not the corrupt.” Meaning, sinners are forgiven, but corrupt are not tolerated & accepted in the church. So, stop the corrupting habit of judging, criticizing & condemning others.

    How? Jesus asserts: “Remove out your beam first, & then you can remove out your brother’s speck.” In other words: “Bago mo linisin ang dungis ng iyong kapwa, hugasan mo ang putik sa mukha.” In Cebuano: “Manalamin sa, bag-o mamintana.” Have a good look then at yourself first. If you have something to judge, criticize & condemn on others, do it to yourself first& perhaps you will be more slow & careful to do so.

    Lord, teach us to do & live your ways in our daily witness of our faith in life. So, May it be. Amen