ASK, SEEK AND KNOCK

March 13, 2025 – Thursday of the First Week of Lent

Click here for the readings (https://bible.usccb.org/bible/readings/031325.cfm)

What would you like to ask from God? What are we supposed to ask also? What do we also seek for ourselves? And what should we also seek in this life?

Do we ask and seek for a happy family and married life? Success and progress in our careers and business? Wealth and long life? A peaceful and comfortable way of life?

Given with the current realities and context that each of us has, our prayer is somehow being molded. This means that what we ask and seek in life are being influenced by our current realities in life. So, in particular, we could be asking for healing because of the illness in us. We might be seeking for justice because of the wrong done unto us. We would ask for a second chance because of the past failure we’ve made. We would seek for freedom because of the oppression that we’ve experienced.

Our readings today capture wonderfully the invitations of the Lord as we ask, seek and knock in our prayer. Indeed, in the Gospel of Matthew, Jesus told us to “ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you.”

This invitation of Jesus is grounded on a “deep faith and trust” in the goodness of the Lord.  The deep faith and trust in us are found in our total confidence and dependence on God who gives and grants what is better for us.

We remind ourselves that the Lord does not say that whatever we ask and desire will be given to us immediately and absolutely. This is not about to ask, seek and knock according to our whims and spur-of-the-moment. Rather, Jesus wants us to realize how important it is to pray and to be able to communicate with God, in all honesty and humility. This prayer springs forth from our intimacy and friendship with God.

Thus, prayer is not just about asking, seeking and desiring what we want for ourselves alone. When prayer is reduced for personal satisfaction then it makes us entitled and self-centered. It ceases to be prayer. Prayer, rather, is allowing ourselves to be more aware of the presence of God in our life. It also makes us aware of God’s presence in the lives of others. Prayer also allows us to acknowledge not just our needs but also the needs of others. This is how prayer builds up our faith and trust in God. Moreover, it also makes us to be deeply in loved and truly concerned for others.

The story of Queen Esther in our first reading tells us about this. The Queen, in all humility, pleaded to the Lord God to rescue her people from death. She did not ask the Lord God to only secure her status, title and wealth as Queen. When there was a threat of oppression, she did not think on how to save herself and her power. She was not after making a political alliance or simply to become a political puppet for her own advantage. Queen Esther, nevertheless, became an intercessor on behalf of God’s people, the Israelites.

The Queen asked the Lord for courage and strength that she may be able to become a true mediator between the people and her husband the King of Persia. She knew that this would be too risky as she might also lose everything she had as Queen, because she was a Jew. She pleaded to the King to stop Haman, an influential court official of Persia, from annihilating the Jews.  Haman hated the Jews because of one man who did not bow and worship him.[1]

As the queen asked and sought the grace from the Lord, her prayers made her also deeply in love with God’s people. Indeed, her prayer was answered because God found delight in her heart that was filled with humility and love. And so, Haman was stopped and punished by the king, and the people were saved.

This is where we also find the  invitation of the Lord for us today. In our prayer, ask the grace that it will be an opportunity for us to grow more in our love and concern for one another. In our prayer, seek God’s desire that we do not forget others and those who are most in need than us. In our prayer, knock that the door of friendship will be opened for us. As we continue the journey in this Season of Lent, let also develop our intimacy and friendship with God and with people around us. Hinaut pa.

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[1] That man was named Mordecai, a cousin of Queen Esther.