IN GIVING AND HEALING LIFE

February 13, 2024 – Thursday of the Fifth Week in Ordinary Time

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Ikaw ba’y nag-iisa at nalulungkot? (Alone and lonely?) Naghahanap ng makakasama at may kayakap? (Looking for a companion and someone to embrace?) When loneliness kicks in, no matter how we surround ourselves with many things or distract our heart and mind with other things, it penetrates the soul and make us anxious and disturbed.

God saw this and realized how the heart of the man grew lonely despite the many creatures that surround him. The longing for companionship and friendship, for community, is indeed, innate to us humanity. Thus, the creation of another human being, of another human life was designed by God in order to bring companionship and to grow in that community.

Hence, as the Lord God gives new life, it also heals the loneliness of man. This second creation story in the Book of Genesis not only refers to the Sacrament of Marriage between man and woman. The creation of another human being is not a matter as to who is superior of the two or which gender is better but of our capacity to share and heal life, to bring comfort and healing.

This is the beauty and wonder that God designed which grows in human friendship and companionship. It heals loneliness. It eases our anxiety. It comforts our broken and troubled heart. It heals division.

This very relationship is what we have also heard in today’s Gospel healing story. The Syrophoenician woman, a non-Jew, therefore, a pagan, begged the Lord for the gift of healing. This woman, a mother, was longing for healing not for herself but for her daughter who was sick because a demonic possession. The seemingly cold response of Jesus was melted at the humility and daring faith of this mother. That relationship between the mother and her daughter made Jesus to look at her from the perspective of compassion and mercy. From that relationship, the mother’s love and care for her daughter became a channel of the Lord’s gift of healing. Indeed, her daughter recovered, was healed and freed as she went home.

The faith showed by the mother to believe in Jesus in spite of all odds and rejections became an opportunity for Jesus to teach his disciples that God’s creative and healing power transcends human differences.

What binds us together is the reality that we are all made by God, brothers and sisters, friends and as a community. This very relationship we have should heal any division and hatred among ourselves. This was very important for Jesus to make his disciples realize this. This was the reason too why Jesus entertained this Greek woman, a Syrophoenician by birth.

The invitation for us now is to realize how our relationship with one another whether as friends, as a couple or lovers, or as a community can be a space of giving and healing life. Let us be more nurturing and inspiring in our relationships that we may not be the cause of pain, division and violence.

It is a call for us also to allow Jesus to take a big space in our relationships because we realize  that in Him and through Him, we shall find healing and freedom. Hinaut pa.